Incorporate or Accommodate: Traits of a Female Cheater

Incorporate or Accommodate: Traits of the Female Cheater

When it comes to the subject of cheating, there is a difference between the male and the female perpetrator. Most female cheaters will INCORPORATE the affair into their schedule and never miss a beat whereas most male cheaters ACCOMMODATE the affair working around it. Changes in routine will get you caught. Married women who cheat, especially if their husbands aren’t stepping their game up, love keeping that secret knowing that whatever he does to her, she has always one-up'd him. She laughs at his stupidity while digging her Louboutin's in his heart.

If you are a married man or planning to get married to any woman, there are some things you should look out for to pre-determine if the love of your life will cheat. If she possess some or all of these traits, you might be giving her the side-eye for the rest of your married life.

She has too many male friends

Affair can begin as a close friendship with members of the opposite sex. It can appear harmless initially, but it is no secret that the closer the woman is to her "platonic" male friend (if significant other is not meeting her needs) it is likely that he will eventually end up becoming her lover...unless he is gay. (I call this man, Captain Sav-A-H.O.)

The company she keeps

If her female friends flirt and cheat, there is a great chance that she will join them. The power of peer pressure is a bitch, eventually if she can't beat them, she might join them. You probably met her that way anyway. She was a huge flirt, who cheated with you.

She’s a fame whore

She believes the world revolves around her, and she would do anything to continue getting attention from wherever, whenever and however. There is a great possibility that a woman who constantly craves attention may cheat on her mate if she feels she’s not getting enough attention from him. In her mind, it takes another man who understands that need for attention to sweep her off her feet and before you know it, she’s gone.

She’s all about the money

She is likely to have an affair with another man because of the material things he can provide. Once the other man has more cash to go around, and can afford all the luxury that thrills her soul, then she is very likely to follow the money. I mean really, who likes poverty?

She’s a thrill seeker

If sex is a means to make a statement with regards to her femininity, then she is likely to look outside. Once her identity as a woman is wrapped around sex, then it won’t matter how many other men she sleeps with. Playing the seductress will also be part of her roles, she will love seducing men to sleep with her as the focal point of her life.

She is broken

As R. Kelly so eloquently sung, “When a woman’s fed up, there is nothing you can do about it,” and even old Satan himself will not mess with a woman that has been scorned. If you have hurt your woman time and time again, she might seek comfort or even the score by cheating in return. Remember, there was a time when you thought she was attractive, so don’t think for one second that there isn’t someone else out there who doesn’t think the same thing. There are so many women who have dabbled into sexual affairs just to get back at their cheating partners.

She likes to get high

Drugs and alcohol are the great influencer on people’s behavior. It enables people to do things that they probably already wanted to but needed an excuse. If she dabbles into these things, then there is a great chance that she could easily be lured into an affair; sometimes without her heart fully in the act.

She is cra-cra in a real way

Cheating partners also hate to be cheated on, but its likely cheating women would keep their path clean (that is hide their affairs) and scrutinize the life of their man. She will have him so paranoid that if he did catch her cheating, she would make him believe that it was his fault.

She has commitment issues

When a woman starts being emotionally unavailable for her man, it could become easier for her to cheat at this point. She’s might get tired of her relationship and would easily notice the strengths of another man and the weakness of her man.

She’s secretive

A cheating woman knows that there are many skeletons in her closet, so she has a somewhat secretive nature to hide her deeds. She has a network of cheaters to help her cover her acts that are more powerful than the CIA. And when she does caught, military silence is maintained.

She lies

Lying and cheating are a bit similar; they both share the same qualities of being deceitful, dishonest and untrustworthy. A woman who can easily tell a lie would also easily cheat on her man.

She’s insatiable

The woman who never has it enough is also likely to cheat. This kind of woman always want more; be it attention, money and every other thing — and the more you try, the less she appreciates you. Women like these would easily meet another man to provide their insatiable needs.

There are many other factors that could lead a woman to cheat, from having a big ego down to suffering from very low self-esteem. So men must make good efforts to understand your women better. She could have certain needs which you are not meeting. It is left for you to notice and make amends or allow her find the answer outside. For women whose needs are not met, a discussion with your spouse is necessary. With two good heads together, you both can find solutions to what is amiss. Its pays to stay true to one faithful partner.